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How to Choose Between Two Lovers

Hey there, ladies!


So it sounds like you're in a bit of a dating pickle. You've been playing the field and now you've got two amazing guys vying for your attention. But as much as you love them both, you just can't choose between them. Trust me, I get it. It's a tough spot to be in.


But eventually, you're going to have to make a decision. It's not going to be easy, but it's important to figure out which one is truly right for you in the long term. And in my experience, the answer is usually pretty clear.


The guy you want to spend your life with is the one who loves and cares for you, not in spite of who you are, but because of it. He's the one who brings you chicken soup when you're sick and cuddles up next to you at night, even if he's feeling under the weather too. He's the one who loves your kids (if you have any, or your pets if you have some!) and accepts all of your quirks and flaws. He's proud of your accomplishments and always encourages you to be your best self. And he's got a strong sense of spirituality that helps guide him through life's challenges.


Of course, love is more than just an emotion. It's also an action. So make sure the guy you choose is someone who will love you at your worst and celebrate you at your best. And ask yourself these questions to help narrow down your options:

  1. Does he love your child(ren)?

  2. Does he love and accept everything about you, past and present?

  3. Is he proud of and not threatened by your accomplishments?

  4. Does he motivate you to be better versus tearing you down?

  5. Does he have a strong sense of spirituality?

  6. How does he handle conflict?

  7. Is he willing to compromise?

  8. Does he make you feel loved and cherished?

Answering these questions can help you gain clarity on which person is the best fit for you. Remember, it’s not about finding someone who is perfect – it’s about finding someone who loves and accepts you for who you are. It’s important to remember that no matter what, someone’s heart is going to be broken. This isn’t an easy decision, and it’s okay to feel torn. But ultimately, you have to choose the person who is best for you in the long run.


Take your time, listen to your heart, and trust your gut. You’ll know when you’ve found the right person for you.


Happy dating,

Jimmy Cue


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